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Old Jan 30, 2011, 10:56 AM
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Originally Posted by LovebirdsFlying View Post
but then they'd hold it over our heads that they helped us, and use it as an excuse to try to control our decision making
Operative word. I am the only person who "controls" me. Yes, I can and have given over that control before but it was me, trying to give over responsibility for myself, not someone taking control.
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