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I certainly don't understand your parents. They're giving you mixed signals. In one breath they're saying you're never going to get married. Then in the next breath, they malign the guys you meet saying "you lured him into your web" ~ what EXACTLY do they want anyway??? It almost sounds like they're nuts!!
I do find it kind of strange that a guy who is 31 "still lives with his mother." That would scare me a little. Has he EVER gone out on his own? Or has he always lived with her? If he's always lived with her, you just might have a problem. lol He would have difficulty separating himself from her, I suspect.
You're grown up ~ granted, if you live in your parents home, you have to abide by their house rules ~ but that doesn't mean that you have to accept their abuse. They have no RIGHT to call you names and you should tell them so - not in an angry scenario - but just remind them that name calling and verbal abuse is out. I wish you the best of luck. God bless. Hugs, Lee
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