I guess I suck at letting go. I'm SOOO angry at him. He told me he didn't love me and he has feelings for that other woman, and he's been in contact with her for the past three weeks. he's trying to say all the moments we've had for the past three months have been him "trying" and not necessarily real. He claims not to be depressed right now.

I told him to leave, and he refused, so I took my kids and left for the night. He then had a pity party for himself and texted his friends saying his wife had left him. he failed to mention the part where he was unfaithful to his wife.

Our counselor says he's dealing with alot emotionally in counseling, and it has triggered his bipolar. She was going to try to reiterate to him how important it was that he go to his evaluation on the 10th, and hoped we could come in together next week.

I can't do this. how do spouses do it? What do I do?? His unpredicability scares me. what if he takes our money? my kids? I'm hoping he'll agree to allow me full custody until he is stabilized on meds. I'm hoping he can put the wellbeing of his children above himself.

He knows he's bipolar. He knows he's off the wall alot. He wants help. But its just not enough right now. I can't handle him lying to me, and lying to veryone else....telling everyone I'm the crazy jealous one. Is it hopeless?

Has anyone here made similar mistakes, and was your marriage recoverable??