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Originally Posted by sittingatwatersedge
(SAWE)I would also ask her to find me some other appointment time, when that other fellow wouldn't be there.
(LG) ..........one of my bigger problems is me avoiding situations and stress.. wouldn't this be basically the same?
No, because you are not there to deal with other clients.
LG it's not as if this was a co-worker or a neighbor who is creating a problem. You are there at that office at that time of day ONLY to work with yr T, and it's very demanding work that requires concentration and focus, and safety and privacy, and this third person is affecting that.
Problems can have many solutions; just because a solution is non-confrontational doesn't mean it is avoidance.
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Thank you.. i'll seriously tought about that then!
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Originally Posted by WePow
You deserve YOUR time with T to be safe and healing.
This is not healing for you.
You have a right to request a different time.
And you don't have to tell T why either!
You can just say "I have to change the time I see you. What else can we do?"
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Thank you for your support. That's right, I'm not feeling better this way. Problem with this solution, leaving out that T got a really busy schedule, is that she'll ask anyway why I want a change
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Originally Posted by with or without you
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You're welcome
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