Yes, I know, dependent.

The latest one I dealt with, I almost begged her to talk about her troubles---I am not kidding---to break my pattern. she will not. But she told me to tell her mine.

Then I do.

Guess what?

She says, "Well, I won't bee at __________ website anymore, so here's my email address."

I email her and never hear from her again.

(banging head against wall in frustration) not really doing it; just in my mind, don't worry!

Billi