Thank you so much for your concern. I must sound like a total idiot. I have known my husband for going on twenty years and hes never intentionaly hurt me. Really!We have talked somewhat about the circumstances and he feels hes being unfairly targeted because of his mental health history. Even though we have certainly had our share of problems marriage-wise, *especially lately, I could never just leave him and my entire life because of what the police may think right now. To answer your question no we dont have any children. Im just really having a very difficult time dealing with so much at once, and even with the problems we have had deep down I want to be there for him and feel so guilty just for the doubt Ive let slip into my mind about all of this