I kinda have the same problem with my boyfriend.

For example, yesterday we agreed that i did the laundry and he would do the dishes in the sink. However, he spent the afternoon chilling on the couch watching movies with me and the evening hanging out with his friend. After his friend left, it was almost midnight, and he finally remembered to do the dishes after my reminding him.

And today, i asked him to help me clean the bathroom because tomorrow his parents will come staying with us. He finally got moving after spending 4 hours on some computer game.

I don't feel disrespected though. I'm the kind of person that would like to get things moving when i want something to be done. Because i'm well aware of this, i always try not to be intense on my boyfriend, i always wait for him to get moving himself instead of getting on his case all the time. Despite how much time and patience i have for him, he just WON'T get moving himself! This makes me really angry sometime. Especially when he reads his books or play Xbox, the male single mind just won't take any extra in. Well, even it takes hours, even days, he can still get it done, which is alright.