After reading this post, I spoke with my boyfriend about this subject. He and I have been together a year and 4 months and are still very active in certain departments. I still wanted to know if he would look at porn or not because I myself find it the same field as cheating. I didn't tell him this when bringing it up but it's just my opinion. When you are with someone who loves you, and the sexual part of the relationship is not hurting, the man should not have a reason to look at other pictures. Then again, maybe it's my severe insecurities and I'm thinking "If he's looking he's not interested in me as much" but in general the way I see it, picture or not, chance or not this woman in this magazine is going through his mind in the way that only I should be doing. There is physical cheating and emotional cheating and while he is not telling her he loves her, it's still mentally cheating imo. I guess maybe it's a grey area that it really depends on the person. Either way I was very relieved to hear my boyfriend say "No" when I asked if he was watching porn, since every other boyfriend I have had I have caught watching it and hiding it (and yes hiding it makes it so much worse). I believe him too sicne we don't have internet or cable and basically with the way our relationship is, there is no need for it. I guess it just really depends on the person and how you feel about it. If you don't feel it's wrong per se, then talk to him and find a comfortable middle with him, if you're with me on the anti porn thing, talk to him about it and maybe make your own vidoes (if you are married and trust him) so he doesn't have to look at other women and will only be able to see you. Then he wont have an excuse for not throwing away the magazines and deleting the sites