I've dealt with most of the feelings, though not all of them. I miss the friendship we had; we had known each other ten years. But I realize, I can't be friends with him. I need to do exactly what you guys are saying. Set the boundaries and move forward. There is a door on the office, so I imagine I'll be using that a lot. I see my pdoc this afternoon, so I will definitely tell him about this, as it's right on the heels of weaning off Seroquel, and ask about something else to keep me calm and "in the right frame of mind". I've never had Klonopin, I might ask about that. Is it very sedating? I don't want to fall asleep at work. I tend to drool in my sleep and my luck it would short out my laptop. Ha, ha!