I m sorry it is hard for you to orgasm tara.For me it is wayto easy.I donno whats worse.Both sound frustrating.i dont sleep with lotsa peopol but i am addicted to feeling it.But its not even something im trying to do half the time.whats worse?did you ask your doctor if the medisins is wats causing the problem?I dont take meds I just have avpd but maybe its the medisins.yah einun,alcohol makes it to easy huh.sugar is right about the emoshunal part.i gues that why i have the problem is because the emoshuns are connected to the body.sorry speling need spell check.I hope you ask the docter about the meds.whisper oh aries im so sorry.heres a hug for you (((aries)))