A person who is an addict is a completelyn different person that you may have known before. The addiction has taken them over and all they care about is filling their addictive needs. You may be able to forgive her in time but I would think she would have to go through some changes, get into recovery, before that would start. I know I was completely different when using. Thought only of myself and my own needs. This is just my opinion anyway.

Allan