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Hi ~ I lived for 26 years with a verbally abusive man who would not take ANY responsibility for his actions ~ he wouldn't even apologize when he hit me. Nothing was HIS fault ~ he blamed me for EVERY single thing that happened. I stayed with him out of fear. I was so terribly naive that I believed his threats.
No, you don't have the same scenario, but he IS abusing you with his verbal abuse. And if he's buying a HOME - a HOME that the BOTH of you are supposed to SHARE -- and he's doing it without your knowledge or input --- then you're not going to have much say in anything else either. I'd pack my bags and get out. He doesn't care about what you have to say. He doesn't care about your opinion. He won't care one little bit if you HATE that house.
There are going to be much more serious issues that come up and HE'S going to make the decision -- not you. You won't even be ASKED for an opinion. Do you want to live like this? You have a dictator in the house. Not a partner. That's not what I would want.
I'd get out -- and fast. Find someone who would SHARE things with you -- not take over. God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee
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