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Feb 01, 2011, 03:27 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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You've got to remember that God doesn't make "crap" ~ God makes perfect beings ~ perhaps we have some problems -- so what??? We just need some help in dealing with them, that's all. I have been in and out of therapy all my adult life. I've been depressed since I was a child. But that was all environmental -- God didn't MAKE me that way. 
I'm sure it's the same with you. You just need some help in dealing with things. 
And yes, you DO need to learn to love yourself. Most people who have our kinds of problems are very loving, kind, considerate people. You can LOVE yourself for THAT !!! Look in the mirror - tell yourself that you love yourself. Look in that persons' eyes and SEE the good person in there. You ARE worthy of loving. You ARE a good person. You ARE kind and considerate! TELL that person in the mirror several times until you believe it! You will NOT fail at this. 
God bless you (and He will) (((Hugs))) Lee
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