eeeeeeee. i saw the word compromise. i compromised myself and all i stood for in a relationship for 16 years. came out of it a total wreck and if the truth be known, 15 years later i still struggle from what happened to me. what i allowed to happen to me. compromise is okay if it works for you but if it is compromise for compromise's sake...i'd be very, very careful and i'd look down the road about 10 years and ask myself if i was still going to be okay with it. xoxoxo pat