Pet...I am very sorry you are in poor spirits today. Why don't you share with us what is really bothering you. I'll wager ..the root of it is not really the hugs,,(giving them or receiving them. We are here to hopefully shine some light on others..but we can't do that very well if we don't understand the deeper issue. I have not been a member that long...so there might be some issues that I am not aware of. Sorry!