Okay, so I've posted once before about how my husband has been unemployed for 2 1/2 years and has only applied for about a handful of jobs because all the other jobs "he's over qualified for..." (his words....)

Well, I finally laid down the law to him. I'm NOT paying his car insurance (he has no job to go to... so no need for that!), and I'm NOT paying his cellphone bill (we aren't on a family plan). Those two bills alone are over $140 a month, and that's groceries for almost two weeks for the three people that live in my house. I'm the sole income person in my house, and if he's not going to help out around the house with chores or try to find a job somewhere, I'm not rewarding him with gas money to drive 45 minutes two or three times a week to visit his mom. I've had it. I don't care if I sound like a ****** about it anymore. I'm absolutely done.

So, he gets his message from Verizon that his cell phone will be disconnected soon if he doesn't pay that past due amount. He calls his mom to pay it, and she just starts bawling.

The woman is overly emotional, anyways.... such a drama queen... more than me, in fact!

So she's crying and just babbling about how she's upset that she can't pay ALL of his bills for him, and she's upset that she can't call him and he can't call her.... blah blahbity blah blah blah... Her baby boy blah blah blah....

(can you tell where I stand on the MIL issue???)

So, anyways, my "sweet hubby" texts me to tell me this... not sure if this is supposed to be a guilt trip into paying his bill.... But I'm still not doing it!

ANGRY FACE!!!! aaaarggggh

Okay... now that I got that out of my system.... have I over reacted?? LOL I'm just sick and tired of him mooching off me and living scot-free in MY house not paying bills, eating food (and complaining about some of it), and then complaining that I'm not paying his cellphone and car insurance.