i have the same issues except i was anorexic before i found out i was pregnant then now i have to gain wait to keep my baby healthy and it kills me but i no its being the best mommy i can be and my fiance loved how i looked before but i think he may like the thicker thighs n 7month baby belly i got more lol obviously if a guy isnt checking you out hes not worthy of what you have to offer. i dont have alot of money so i am not going to recomend going shopping or getting your hair done cus i no often times its not affordable but wet n wild and nyc has nailpoilish for under a dollar and trust me new nails will help atleast they do for me. i stick to bright pink they draw attention but also say im a lady and pink is for princesses and what girl doesnt want to be a princess now adays good luck and remember everybody is beautiful in a different way. i no its hard to think that way and i often have trouble thinking like it but you have alot of people who are here supporting you saying honey your pretty so stand up be proud and realize you are beautiful