Hello, I am Megan I am 23 and the single mother of a 2.5 year. I have been seeing this guy, (not the father of my child) officially for 7 months, but we have been involved for over a year. Things were going great until he moved in with his best friend and his best friends wife. Now he is distant from me, has no interest in sex, Hardly touches me. That makes me feel like there is something wrong with me. When i talk to him about it he has told me he isn't as attracted to me as he once was, but he doesnt want to end the relationship. He just wants me to try and lose weight and well try more at being me. When we started dating i weighed the same as I do now, and it was never really an issue. But i know that the wife of his friend is super negative when it comes to weight and has constantly told me that i need to lose it, and I think she is nagging at him about me behind my back. I love him, but at the same time, it seems to me that he is more interested in them then me. He cares more about what they think then what i do. This is all very difficult for me. Does anyone have any advice other then ending the relationship. Because I am a diagnosed rapid cycle bipolar, and i just want to make sure that im not over reacting.
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