Hi there! I am new to this and have a case of 'sea legs' so bare with me while i find my way. I live with a Man whom I adore and always have since the first time we spoke. he had me at Hello. It has been six years so far with our relationship and in that six years about every three to six months something happens to him to make him suddenly 'change' and decide that 'things aren't working', "too much drama" and so on and so forth. Then after a few days or so- all of a sudden- He Loves me with all he has and doesn't want me to go anywhere and he admits he is difficult and hard to live with. he tells me things and when i repeat the comments he tells me he never said those things and my imagination is working overtime. I get headaches some times with all of this roller-coastering. anyone else have this from a narcissistic person.?