(((Oscura)))

I can relate to your hurt emotions and feeling in danger. If I were in the same position, I guarantee that I'd be feeling very paranoid....despite the fiance's reassurance. I think that it's pretty natural to feel that way.

I don't know if my personal experience can help you feel better ~ but my ex-hub and I have 2 young girls (aged 8 and 6 yrs). We share custody, which does require frequent communication. Sometimes, I've had to do him favors...and vice-versa, largely to reduce tension between us & ensure that our children feel loved and treasured by us both. We're both tight on money ~ for different reasons...but that doesn't mean that our children should pay the price of our different ideals.

I think that it will continue to be this way for a long time. It doesn't mean that we love or miss one another. We do love our girls though, and that's what's important to us. Does that help you feel better at all? I sure hope so hon! Chances are pretty good that your fiance has a similar opinion on that topic.