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Originally Posted by zooropa
I guess I can call her and leave a message saying I was hoping I would hear back from her, and that I don't understand what's going on or why. That I know I said I wouldn't call her again, but I figured out I wasn't ok with it ending like that. That I would like her to call me back to talk about this, and no, it can't wait until next week.
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Zoo this would be me. It's better to call since email can so easily be misconstrued; on the other hand if you leave her a message, you
have called, so she can hear your words and your emphasis etc; and still you don't have to interface with her directly before you get some kind of positive response from her. Good plan IMO.
one other thing, if it were me I think I would write down what I want to say in the message, and read it into the phone - that way I wouldn't get tied up in my emotions (((( hugs to you ))))