oh, wow (((((((((((((zoo)))))))))))))))))

It DOES sound like T is totally burnt out, and that certainly can NOT be, in any way, your fault. Even if you were calling 10 times a day, it's T's job to recognize how she is feeling, and to set boundaries BEFORE she gets to the burnt out place. She could say "zoo, all of my patients are calling so much, and I need a little break." and set up something that works for both of you. For example.

You must feel scared and abandoned and awful. I am really REALLY sorry. My heart is aching for you. Try to remember that it's not going to feel like this forever. It feels like this right NOW, but it will change.

Be very very gentle with you. Come here and talk to us. PM me if you need to vent and vent and vent.

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