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Originally Posted by zooropa
No, t didn't come to my house, but when we talked she was crying. She said she thought I had taken my life, and the word she used was terrified. I wonder, too, if this isn't related to that in some way. I think she may have been crying today too at one point in our conversation. I'm just still waiting for another return call from her. I was crying myself during the last message I left. I need her help so much right now. This conflict with t is just making the rest of my life that much harder to deal with.
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It makes sense to me that it could be related. Sort of like what griffin said - maybe a mini-PTSD reaction.
I know that for me, I can be very good at getting through things in the moment they are happening, and it's not until later that I start to have the feelings - sadness, or fear, or anger, or whatever.
If that IS the case, I hope T seeks out supervision, or talks to her own therapist, so she is able to move through it and be there for you. I know being a T is an incredibly stressful job, and I know that my T is VERY careful about self-care...and when he's not, I can tell.
Hugs and hugs and hugs to you, zoo
