Petunia, hugs aren't bad and they don't hurt me, does it hurt you when we give you hugs??

I'm just confused.

People are upset that some get more hugs and kudos than others.

So now I feel bad because people do give me kudos. I don't ask for them. They just do it.

It used to make me feel good but now I feel it is wrong because it hurts peoples feelings.

Then if I give kudos, but not to everyone, again I am hurting someone's feelings.

Sometimes I PM the person with support instead. Sometimes that person doesn't want it. Or they tell me they are not worth the hugs and I am wrong for thinking that way and that I can't really see the pain they're in.

So I stop giving them.

And then they hurt.

And I end up feeling bad.