I always wondered myself about who I really am in that type of way... I don't know what I even consider myself cause like your situation you have emotions for both genders but no sex drive for either. I don't necessarily believe in asexuality but then again that is the only thing that seems logical. However, maybe that one special person can make your emotions settle down and more or less figure out what you really want. But, it's really difficult especially for someone young like me because you don't really know how to handle a relationship where you emotionally connect but yet feel almost weird about the thought of doing anything sexual with them. Not much advice I can offer except just try to make the best of what you do know about yourself, what you want to achieve, and what you want in someone else.