I think because we are such sensitive people who have been hurt and feel the pain of others we tend to react so much to other's pain and are so sensitive to others not seeming to get the Kudos or hugs or what ever that we get.

I myself often feel guilty for any extra attention or affection, yet it is something I crave...
Some people hurt so much that they don't know how to accept any support or affirmation. They don't feel worthy or good enouogh...been there. And you are d**ned if you do and same if you don't.

Well, I will take hugs, Kudos, support, help, lifejackets, whatever because for so long I neither asked for or accepted them INL, or anywhere. Others in my system have a hard time accepting these things and they will someday learn how. But till then...

There are many special people here and (((())))) to all
And to all a good night....wait wrong story...