a couple nites ago i was abused badly always verbal but this time physical my question is has anyone had their abusers say things like they thought they were justified in what they did or say stuff like oh u bruise easy anyway at one point during the nite i was thrown out of the car this after one attempt earlier in the ride & i fought to stay in the car & he gave up then says "well i had asked u to get out of the car to begin with" im sorry im being confusing im tired & i dont wanna go into the whole detailed story rite now basically has anyones abusers showed no remorse even like they r convincing themselves it didnt happen & after sayin this sack of crap saying they love u believe me hes not here we r separated i thought i was going that nite to put my signature on a check & the whole thing turned into a manipulative verbally & physically abusive nightmare if it wasnt for my two girls i wish he would die i hate him as of now hes suckin up in ways other than acknowleding the things he did to me the other nite cuz he knows theres another tax check to be signed hes a coward crazy narcisist however u spell it i have refrained from sayin these things about him til rite now cuz "good christians dont say those things" but we r human theres a certain point where u gotta let it out or you will get sicker what else do i feel hes a lying using waste my time & life waste of human flesh oh & btw so is my brother there i said it how can a christian have so much hate in their heart & im upstairs readin my Bible course in psalm 109 David has quite the wish list for his enemies but in the end he says Vegence is yours Lord omgosh i could care less if he dropped dead