Sounds like you are trying to fit yourself into the situation (like many people have had to do while trying to grow up in bad situations). Now it is time for you to learn to be yourself. Answer the question truthfully without doing the calculations for the effects of your answer.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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