Thanks....

Sannah - He basically said that what I wrote was clear, that I was expressing feelings that I felt needed to be said. There was no reaction to it, other than he didn't see where there were "you" statements and something about not having remorse. It was like, "OK, I read it.".....

And I'm not quite sure it's his beliefs is really the issue. I don't want him to be detached. I want him to be invested in the relationship. But I want him to also practice what he preaches, kwim? If he's trying to teach healthy communication, then I expect him to model it as best he can.

When he said that maybe a different T would serve my needs better, my heart sunk. *sigh*