I was trying to be respectful of the boundaries she set, in fact I had just asked her if it was okay to talk about the kids. She said she has to "focus on skills management because"...and then she stopped. I said, "because of what, and how is this not skills management? I need to know what the boundary is." That's when she hung up.

I can't go to the ER. There is no help for me there. I'm not sui, anyway. Yes, I'm using other negative coping including SI, but I'm not in danger of my life or whatever. I'll get through this, it just really really hurts.