Thank you Darryl! His phone has been disconnected for over 2 months, and the only thing I did to "help" him is that I got the MagicJack, so we now have a home phone that he can use. His insurance gets paid when he goes to help his mama out with anything she needs, and she pays him for that trip, which helps... and I'm still not bowing down.

I gave him the ultimatum after a huge fight this past Monday to find a job, or find a way to get his stuff out and down to his mom's. It's been over 2 1/2 years since he found a job, and I'm not going to put up with him not helping me around the house at all.

My only fear is that somehow, in the divorce or dissolution, that I would be told to pay spousal support. Not sure how this works, but since he hasn't worked, hasn't looked, hasn't enrolled in school, and since we don't have a baby or anything, would I be forced to pay spousal support?