I'm glad your T didn't hang up on you! When I read your post about that conversation, with her stopping mid-sentence, I was going to suggest that maybe you got disconnected, but I didn't want to get your hopes up. I'm glad it worked out that way, though.

Her text sounded reassuring, especially giving you the okay to call. It sounds to me like she gets overly involved with clients and then gets overwhelmed. Reminds me of my T answering every part of my emails in detail because she said she "agonizes" over them and wants to give me therapeutic answers, but then realizing that it's too much for her and ultimately not good for either of us.

I hope she can "give her parts what they need", to use Internal Family Systems terminology, so that you and she can work it out.