Thank you for reading my post.

Basically....some members of my family are going through difficult situations right now.

There is a dynamic going on I do not know how to change or what to say.

When one person is going through a very difficult situation that involves legal

matters ,and another person- (that knows nothing about the law, nor the day

to day details of what is occurring and basically is not involved at all)

severely minimalizes the gravity of the situation and then begins

being really angry and yelling "stupid" and "crazy" and why are you so "over

reactive, you are f...... crazy" ........how can I bring closure to this.

I know these reactions have there basis in love and hating to see their family suffer.

But it also is a "know it all" attitude, when they know little....

And very very judgmental.

All attempts to not discuss or involve those not involved are being made.

Still, these outbursts occur even if nothing is said, just if our "energy" seems

off. Like they now have the knowledge to read minds and get angry for

what they assume....

I know it is based in love and feeling helpless....but perhaps I can

somehow say something or bring to light with the right words- to stop

the judgmental hurtful things being said, and perhaps encourage them

to non-apologetically step back, even with opinions, because it is hurt on top

of hurt here.

maybe not explaining this clearly enough, but hope someone gets what I am

saying and can give a helpful reply.

peace and thank you