zoo, I'm so sorry this is happening to you. It sounds like a deeply horrible thing to be going through.

It's not clear to me from her email whether this limit:

"We discuss what you experienced, what skills you implemented, and explore others you could implement in the future, and that's it."

is for what she will discuss during phone contact, until you can meet face to face, or whether she will limit the face-to-face discussion to these topics. If this is all she will discuss face to face, then I agree that it is worrying that she won't discuss her part in what has happened- especially when she has been consistently communicating to you that she hasn't managed her limits well.

Sending you strength to see a way forward...