Just typed a long descriptive post on this and somehow lost it, here's the summary:

I'm having Major Depressive episode that has been lingering since October. Mostly, when I'm depressed I sit around, doing nothing and saying nothing, surfing the internet,etc.

Had a "good" weekend w/hubby last wknd, then Monday and Tuesday were blah days. Wednesday started off good, but we got into a big fight w/hubby about something stupid, during which he said he'd "spoken with a third party" (WTF) and was told that it sounded like I was abusing him and that they were shocked he is living in "such a situation".

I am completely flabbergasted. I'm a very quiet depressant (aren't we all?)
Hubby and I fight about stupid things, but not that often. Every time I ask he says he has no complaints. Since this Dep episode, he'd started using my "issues" to discredit my very logic, actions, complaints, whatever, when we do argue. It now feels like I, as a person, have been removed from our life and labelled "don't mind her, she's just crazy".

I see my pdoc every month, my T every week, and have never been given any reason from them to make me think they see me as delusional or irrational. I am 100% med compliant. Hubby has NEVER said anything of this nature to me before, just the irritating dismissal of my opinions during arguments that I mentioned before.

At a loss for words, flabbergasted, and WTF do not even HALF explain the hurt and confusion that I'm feeling right now. How am I supposed to respond or react to that?!?