I started feeling REALLY kind of icky and vulnerable around all of this this morning. I thought about T putting my card in my file, and how that would feel, and I wished I had just thrown it away. I e-mailed him and asked him where he had put it, and he sent me this reply:

Hey Tree - I have placed your card in a space that is meaningful to me, not associated with therapy, but with love, kindness and grace.
T

I love T. I see how he is being so careful and gentle with this and it helps.