Zoo, it is going to be hard, however IMHO i think you should go to t appt on monday and listen to what she has to say. if she owns up to her part, the relationship may be able to be repaired.

if you skip Monday, it may be possible that you will be wondering what happened or could have happened for a very long time. and if you do go and find out you cannot get it resolved you can at the very least tell yourself that you did try one more time.

i am going to see t on monday as well. he hurt my feelings and my guess (though i really don't want to admit it) is he probably has no idea how or why....

(afraid to say anything to him at the time he is doing it~trying learn how my feelings are justified)

i will be thinking of you, sending lots and lots of safe hugs