I agree with "time0" 100%.
There is advantages of being on your own, when it comes to job and/or location changes. I've experienced both,when there aren't any little kids involved, that is a huge less of a stressor, not having the worry of school enrollment and finding a good pediatrician, finding a good group of new doctors was scary, especially having to move to a different state,having a baby and not knowing where things are, the neighbors, etc. So this may help you a bit when and if you move.
If you feel you want to move and are able to, I'd suggest to.
I know what it is like to have to live in a place and/or town that you just hate, I had for 12 yrs. due to circumstances. I wish you lots of luck and love.
Sincerely,
DE


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