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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
thanks suga, you nearly turned on the water works there 
Thing is FWB and I love each other dearly, it's not jis physical, so the sex is anything but meaningless,we've loved each other WAY before anything developed between us (YEARS), but we agreed on the terms... (we both have relationship issues)
I had 1 actual bf, my daughters dad, that went horribly wrong, but I never thought of myself as unworthy...so this is really confusing me 
but it's there, and right now it's my truth, and it's freaking me out...  |
Hi, Trippin - I hope you do have a lightbulb moment and remember why you are more than worthy
The great thing about it being "your" truth is that you have the power to change your truth.
What is interesting is that you say there is no relationship with your FWB because you agreed on the terms. It seems to me you have a relationship whatever the original terms were. You love each other, the sex is good, you understand each other...in my opinion, really good, long-term relationships usually start as friends. Maybe you could just let it evolve naturally..it doesn't necessarily require a label anymore than it needs to conform to a certain logic. Hope that helps.
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