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Old Feb 04, 2011, 11:54 PM
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So sorry you have to go through that...I honestly can't imagine losing my therapist right now. I'm glad you get to stay in contact, at least you know she is out there somewhere and not gone forever.

It is the hardest relationship because for the most part is is one-sided. We, as the clients, get all the feelings for them and form an emotional attachement...and they can't return the feelings like we want.

I don't really have any suggestions for moving on from your old therapist...I've never been cut off from one. I did have one for about 6 years and I just needed to move on. When I started seeing my new one, I was constantly comparing them and analyzing every word. But, I just had to remember that it was a different person with a different style and they could help me in a different way. Keep talking to they new therapist about how you feel, how much you miss your old one, and how hard it is for you to move on...I'm sure eventually it will get easier.

Just my two cents...hope it gets better soon