Hi, Jeanie. I know what you're talking about. I acted the same way with my ex-MD. He was cute, calm and caring. The one thing that I didn't like...his voice was completely flat...monotone...so much so, it was kinda weird.
Anyhow, I think it's pretty normal to do and professionals are trained to spot it and to deal with it. Infatuations can be really fun, though, can't they?
Good luck! I'm glad you found someone who hears you and that you feel comfortable with!
KD
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