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Old Feb 05, 2011, 08:28 AM
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Originally Posted by carsan60612 View Post
But what happens when there is a real human connection and it’s just cut off? Isn’t that more harmful? It only reinforces my lifelong belief that nobody cares about me.
From a non-T relationship that I had, and was cut off, I too found it very hard to take, and still do. But I figure maybe the other person had some vulnerabilities that they could not manage in a relationship with me. In other words, maybe it wasn't just me.
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