Here, in this place, you are loved for exactly who you are, for all the things that have happened and all the choices that you've made. There is no good or bad, just acceptance and compassion.
You are not what has happened, you are a sweet, wonderful person who's doing their best to get through. Though I don't know you in person, I, and everyone else here love you. Though my experience might not be identical, our common humanity defines that we suffer together. We need that from each other.