I knew after session 1 that current T was going to be good for me and that he was what I was looking for. I have seen several Ts in the past and never felt we were a great "fit" even after several weeks/.months.

I dont know how many meetings it takes- I think it depends on how you feel with T, but I would give it at least 3 or 4 and see how you feel then. Like the others, although I knew current was who I wanted to work with, I have been with him for nearly 3 years and still cant talk about a lot of stuff. But I know eventually I will. Hopefully.

I think you end up trusting your instinct on this because its such an important choice to make. If there's something in the back of your mind telling you this T isnt right then maybe at least looking at the option of meeting with other Ts would a good step.