1. I need to vent....I am tired about hearing how God can heal me. If I had cancer, would they tell me that? There was no god in that room when my father was stealing my innocence

2. How do you respond to insensitive, hurtful, and/or unsupportive comments by others? It hurts to see that, what's an appropriate response?

3. How do you respond to questions about your parents (when they were your abusers) My parents are very much alive, but I have had no contact with them in years. They are dead to me, but I don't feel comfortable saying they're dead to others. Any good responses?

thanks