Don't we hope to not be judged? Don't we go to a T because we believe that is the one place where we can be ourselves? Of course, we tend to put the T on a pedestal but like everyone has already stated, they are human also. The question is - can this person help me? If your trust is shattered so badly by this, then you probably should seek another therapist. But, please, let her have the opportunity to explain it to you. There is nothing worse than being judged. I know - I've been there. Who among us has gone through life without making a mistake? Can the T also not be given the same understanding that we want from them? And please please please, don't leap in your imagination to horrible thoughts about your T just by one piece of fact that you have obtained. Would you want anyone doing that about you?
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