(((hugs))) yw... you have every right to post this, to begin whatever thread you need to ... and even if someone DID need attention, it doesn't delete the pot any for sharing.

Your best is good enough. (Whew, that's something I keep thinking myself (best isn't good enough.) I know it adds to my depression..but it seems like truth, to me... and I'm sure it does to you, too (that it isn't good enough, others demand more.. grrr)

Take care of yourself.