I understood! (But I am concerned over the supposed 50-50 vote on it lol) I'm probably concerned because I sure wouldn't want a mental HEALTH site to be void of KUDOS...and since we have trouble maneuvering and finding all the threads I think I want to read ..etc etc etc.. how much more to read if the kudos were JUST all over the place

I agree also about the feelings I'd probably have here if I were a newbie just now.... sigh maybe it's a necessary evil of a growing site IDK But there are many members who are trying to welcome and help the new members get situated and welcomed (Of course, my trial by fire didn't stop me, and I'm sure it would happen again today if I were joining right now... lol some members never change! )