I knew I liked my T the first meeting...but I had already been in therapy before for about 6 years with another T, so I kind of knew what I wanted. However, there have been times when I doubted our connection and what he was willing to do for me...even into months of being with him. I always wondered if there was someone else who was better for me, but I honestly just didn't want to start over again.

I keep sticking with my T, even in moments of doubt because the good feelings outweigh the bad. Do this with your T, decide if the good qualities and good feelings you get are worth sticking it out just a little longer. I would say, if you still feel nothing in another month, try to find someone else.

Good luck