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Originally Posted by googley
My T said that I should know the next time I talk about it that the topic isn't new that she already knows something about it.
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Hi Googley,
Does this make it feel like she is expecting more than you are capable of? The "you should" might make me feel angry. I think I would be prompted to say, "what is this
you should? You don't know how I feel. You don't know how hard it is for me to talk about this."
(I'm not so good with shoulds, I pummel myself with enough of them already...
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